We've had another example of how dangerous trying to save our dogs can be. It seems our protective side kicks in and we don't think of our own safety. Last week we had the incredibly sad news of the couple following their dogs into a swollen river to rescue their dogs, with neither humans or dogs surviving. This week we have the equally sad news of a mother-of-three and the sister-in-law of comedian Ruby Wax dying while trying to get her dogs away from a train track. One dog died with her, the other made it home alone. Very very sad, and a warning to us all of how the strong bond we develop with our dogs can leave us vulnerable.
Of course another time we are vulnerable is at the death of our dog. This can be as devastating as the loss of any family member, and this can be compounded by the lack of understanding demonstrated by those who haven't experienced a relationship with a dog. If you or someone you know are grieving, then visit The Healing Art of Pet Parenthood blog. They offer a counseling service, which if necessary is on an offering basis - so don't be put off if you think you couldn't afford it. They also have advice for helping your dog live as long and healthy a life as possible. You can follow the author of The Healing Art of Pet Parenthood Nadine M. Rosin on Twitter too.
If you've ever wondered if your dog has a soul, animal behaviorist Marc Bekoff, professor emeritus at the University of Colorado, Boulder, reckons he has the answer. He has some interesting comparisons of canines and humans, and some intriguing definitions of what might constitute having a soul. Food for thought.
Take care,
Julie x